Unveiling the Power of Asking: Lessons from Hindu Epics
Last week, during a scene in the movie Bezos, the character's statement 'Because you never asked for it' resonated deeply with me. I explored references in Hindu epics and examined my own personal and professional experiences. As a child, I rarely voiced my desires. Partly wanting to be good, mostly finding my mom surpassing my wishes, I felt either delighted or slightly off, yearning for something unknown. This pattern of silence continued in many areas of my adult life. Whether choosing a restaurant or expressing food preferences, I often hold back my opinions and simply say “I am fine with anything”, though I am not actually. This silence stems from two main desires: one, to be perceived as a "good girl" who avoids being demanding, and two, to prioritize the comfort and enjoyment of others. I cared more about fitting in and being easygoing than I did about speaking my mind or saying what I wanted. My professional life isn't immune to this pattern either. S...